4. A person changes after marriage for the better:
Yes they do, but it’s not always for the best. So if you are having trouble in the relationship, don’t hold on to the hope that he will change. Rather accept him the way he is.
5. A marriage is only about two people:
As much as we would want this to be true, an Indian marriage is also about his relatives and yours. No matter how much you ignore them, they will always be around.
6. Love heals all:
Not necessarily. If you think you are being taken advantage of, it’s better to speak up rather than expect your love to conquer all your difficulties.
7. Healthy marriages are free of conflict:
Put two people together and you are bound to have arguments. Healthy arguments (which include remote arguments) are almost expected in a relationship.